On a related note:
meena: shoes are a lot like boys/girls...
meena: you can't just go out and look for the right ones
meena: it's a more coincidental thing
tony: I will find the right shoes when I stop looking
meena: you've thought about this before, haven't you?
tony: I DIDN'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT
meena: denial is always the first step
tony: the 2nd step is tequila!